Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit - just as you were called to one hope when you were called- one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.Matthew 5:9
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.While there are 2 sides to every story, situation and relationship... the Bible clearly states that we are blessed when we choose peace. Hmm.... that's not always fun, and almost never easy. But in the long run there are benefits. It's easier to get along with people, you aren't seen as a troublemaker, and you don't have to worry as much about high blood pressure.
But what about the times when you KNOW you are right? What about the times when you KNOW it should be the other person to bend? Whether this is in your marriage, your church or some other relationship, there is only one good choice... pray. Pray that the eyes and hearts of the other person are softened, and pray that you would be gracious if you are found to be right. And if you are NOT right (gasp, that's not possible... is it??) then you need to accept that, too, and make every effort to keep the peace. And where there is no peace, then find a way to restore it, be a peaceMAKER.
Here are a few more verses on peace... from the NIV version of the Bible...
Consider the blameless, observe the upright; there is a future for the man of peace. Psalm 37:37
There is deceit in the hearts of those who plot evil, but joy for those who promote peace. Prov. 12:20
You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Isaiah 26:3
The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace. Romans 8:6
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints. 1 Cor. 14:33
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23